When excitement outpaces relationship, the model won’t land. This episode explores why your presence—not your enthusiasm—is what builds trust in IFS work. A quiet reorientation to the parts of the work you can’t skip.
11:32 min
This episode begins with a question you’ve probably heard—or maybe asked:
“Sometimes exiles don’t trust Self, even when protectors give access. What do you do with that?”
It’s a fair question. But it often reveals a deeper layer: a moment when we’ve moved into “doing the model” and drifted from the relationship itself.
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